Accepting criticism

extremely visible:
clearly visible: III
visible: I
mediocre: IIII
weak:II
very weak: I
extreme weak:

Own grading: mediocre. I'm kinda bad on this. If you criticise what I do or say, you criticise me as a person. Have a feeling this is a bit womanly. Men are more like water off a ducks back with criticism. Am I right or am I right?