Tips for socially challenged
This topic came up in a comment, and thought I'd share my experience.
1. Always remember that most people are more shy than yourself.
2. Few people are rejected trying to befriend others (exception: drunks or rude).
3. A sparkle in the eye is very attractive.
4. Don't be afraid to say something to break the ice. A compliment always works. (Oh, these are nice shoes, where did you buy them? - flattery will take you everywhere).
5. Smile a lot. Chances are people will smile back.
6. A bar is a good example of where to befriend people, but these tips also work in an office, at the bus stop, in a shop etc etc.
7. Be helpful. Not common these days, therefore will be remembered.
8. And the obvious, don't judge a book by its cover. There may be more than the looks (and the ugly ones are usually best in bed :)
1. Always remember that most people are more shy than yourself.
2. Few people are rejected trying to befriend others (exception: drunks or rude).
3. A sparkle in the eye is very attractive.
4. Don't be afraid to say something to break the ice. A compliment always works. (Oh, these are nice shoes, where did you buy them? - flattery will take you everywhere).
5. Smile a lot. Chances are people will smile back.
6. A bar is a good example of where to befriend people, but these tips also work in an office, at the bus stop, in a shop etc etc.
7. Be helpful. Not common these days, therefore will be remembered.
8. And the obvious, don't judge a book by its cover. There may be more than the looks (and the ugly ones are usually best in bed :)
posted by Annika @ 4:09 PM
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